This today’s discourse I wrote immediately after suffering a
concussion, because I felt like sharing an experience with you that I, to this
extend, have not felt in a long time: unforeseen adjustments.
All of a sudden I was in a position in which I could not
pursuit and accomplish my day’s plans, an unexpected action had put me on hold,
this unforeseen event looked me dead in the eye saying: stop, sit down, relax,
you will continue your deeds tomorrow. I did not like it at all, I thought
about the plans I had for that day and how I was simply powerless and unable
to work things off my to-do list. What does that mean for and to me? Does my
momentum stop here and I have to start all over again? Is that a sign of
failure, for I was not able to keep up the momentum, was I not perseverant
enough? Is this the end of ambition, of my plans, is that what Langston Hughes
referred to as a dream deferred? Well,
it took me a while to figure out what has happened, and the answer to all these
questions is simple: NO!
I was merely confronted with a new challenge: getting back
on track. And I was excited to take on this challenge, because the U.S. American
professor and author Maya Angelou stated quite truly that "nothing will work
unless you do." I have to do, I have to get back up on it, and despite this
little delay get back on track, and do...and then things will work again; and I
will regain my momentum. This is where heart comes into play (and this is
exactly why I consider it, among perseverance, one of the main pillars of
success): if your heart is strong, you do not let days of unforeseen events get
in your way. You depreciate them, call 'em a day, and continue with the same
amount of heart, believe, and dedication as before. And these days do have a
great side effect: they reveal, how much you have already accomplished on your
relentless way to success—use this retrospect as fuel for the next and further steps in life.
Why is this not as easy as it reads? Because once we lose
our momentum we immediately tend to trigger a bunch of 'what if' questions,
leading us sometimes even as far as questioning our lives and deeds. If you
want to continue after this unforeseen day of deferral, look back and take
stock—and
see this day of pause, on hold, as an intermediate stage on your long road to
success...and furthermore be grateful and happy about the things you have
already accomplished up to this day. Follow the words of legendary baseball
icon George Herman "Babe" Ruth Jr., who said: "Don’t let the fear of striking
out hold you back." Continue to do what you do, do not let anything slow you
down. Former U.S. president Franklin D. Roosevelt proclaimed the freedom of fear in 1941 (as part of his
famour Four Freedoms speech); and we shall be free from fear and continue our
drive, keep going and doing, get back on our perseverance and back on our
track. Fear to fail, fear to drop out, fear to screw up, fear to lose grip? No,
I do not understand these definitions. Let’s be free from fear, and get
back on track, because we are of great heart.
...and you know what’s really impressive after a day on
hold? When we get back to work immediately after like nothing ever happened—and this
is how we do it!